Our differences create a complex sketch
With veering lines and shadows
Many questions with few answers
An unanticipated destination reached
By two separate roads
Though hand in hand
Clouds of dark loom above
But then flies a hopeful dove
Riding a sunbeam of transparent light
That brings love with compromise
John C. Bader
Compromise and Communication
One of the most crucial ingredients to a lasting relationship is communication. Partners need to be able to share thoughts on the most intimate of levels. Effective communication is more of the dynamic push and pull; the give and take. Partners must be able to speak and listen. They must be able to share thoughts and feelings without fear of potential backlash. As a responsive partner, it is important to remember that when arguments occur, trying to listen and understand where your partner is coming from; what he or she wants, is more productive than just immediately getting defensive.
The shortest distance between two positions is intention. This is certainly true in relationships where you should always strive to be aware of what your partner’s wants and needs are. Our actions as responsive partners should be grounded in desire and commitment; the sources of lasting love. Our choices, attitudes, and acts of kindness are valuable assets to our relationships. Your own intention to continually reach out and show your partner you really care sends out a series of positive actions. Remember, positive actions always create more positive reactions. This kind of focus and progress in your relationship guarantees a circle of positive energy around you; with you and your partner, happy and balanced at the center.
John C. Bader
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John,
Certainly, a defensive posture almost always creates animosity. Animosity cannot be good for any relationship.
Understanding that you don’t always have to agree is one of the keys to getting along better.
Cheers,
Marc
As always, thanks for your comments Marc – appreciate the support on Twitter/Triberr too!